- If a guy likes you he’ll give you all the attention in the world and he’ll make sure u know that he likes u, so don’t waste ur time doing the -does like me does he like me not crap.
- If he’s nice to u only when he feels like it – then he’s a jerk. How u feel for sum1 doen’t change cos ur in a bad mood.
- Don’t ever and I mean EVER let a guy tell u that ur not pretty enough or smart enough for him. The world is full of jerks who think that they are God’s gift 2 women and its better to stay away them.
- Don’t ever assume that sum jerk who cheats on women will change himself for u, remember once a cheater always a cheater.
- Just because sum1 says I Luv U doesn’t mean that they actually do. Actions speak louder than words and guys will do or say just about anything to get into a girl’s pants.
- If he always has two three chicks hanging around as his back up then dump the jerk.
- Don’t ever let a guy tell u that he can do better than u, remember that u r the best..
- Don’t ever compromise ur own principles for a guy… if he likes u enough he’ll respect u if you stand up for wat u believe in.
- If a guy ever cums even close to hittin u then just walk out on him, period!
- A guy who cares about u will never take u away from ur friends, he’ll in fact try to be a part of the gang..
- Any guy who expects u to sacrifice ur career for him is not worth it in the first place.
- If u feel that u’ve lost ur self confidence since u started datin sum guy then just get out b4 its too late.
- Like the guy for what he is not for what he does….
- If he’s not there for u in ur lows then he’s not worth being with in ur highs
- Remember guys can sweet talk themselves out of any situation.
- If a guy really cares then distance will never be a problem for him…..he’d want to be ur boyfriend even if either of u moved to Timbaktu
- Don’t be afraid to talk about the future of the relationship…..the fact that ur afraid means u kinda know its not heading that way.
- Don’t ask him to make decisions for you, make ur own decisions cos he’ll get used to it and b4 u know it he’d be tellin u how to live ur life..
- If he doesn’t acknowledge the relationship in front of his friends then I am not sure that he’s the guy for you.
- Don’t do things for a guy that u’d regret later, it’s very easy to get carried away in a relationship.
- Know ur priorities, remember family always cums first.
- A guy who has the kiss and tell funda is a Jackass and so not worth it.
- Any guy who puts u down in front of others is just gonna hurt u in a long run.
- If he flirts with women in front of u like u don’t even exist then tell him to go screw himself…
- Don’t get emotionally dependent on sum1 if there’s no future to the relationship.
- If a guy cares about u then he’d care about small things that to u.
- A guy who cares will always stand up for you.
- If u constantly feel like u can do better then end the relationship b4 sum1 gets hurt.
- Its ok to be jealous but if the guy can’t even stand the sight of u talkin 2 another guy then run for ur life…
- Guys with a dominating streak are bound to get violent sooner or later and it’s better to stay away from them.
- If the guy is mean to you a lot, don’t try to justify his actions in ur head with things like – he had a bad day or he’s stressed about stuff. No reason is good enough to treat u like carp.
- If being with a guy gets the worse out of u or being with u gets the worse out of him then its not workin out…..
- Don’t be scared to end a relationship if it’s not workin out cos ur afraid of bein alone….remember Karan & I are always there for u.
- Remember to take ur friend's opinion abt the guy ( & mine as well ), if they don't like him then there has to be sumthing wrong. When it cums to stuff like this friends are generally rite....
- Last but not the least it takes a lot more than love to make a relationship work. It takes a whole lot of maturity, understanding and adjustments so get into a relationship only if ur ready.
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
This one's for my baby sis...
I have been planning 2 write this blog for sum time now just never got around to doin it. Any1who knows me knows how important my siblings are to me. They mean the world to me…. my brother is more like friend to me but my sis is my baby. I think I luv her like a daughter and I’ve done everything within my power to make sure she turns out into a spoilt brat…lol! I am super super protective about her and even thought I’ll try I know am not gonna always be around to shoo away the jerks. And I sooo don’t wanna admit it but sooner or later she’s gonna find sum guy worthy enough to date. If it were upto me I’d make sure she doesn’t date until she’s 30…no kidding. I think I am so protective cos I don’t want her 2 be hurt ever and if sum guy ever did (god forbid) , I think me and my brother are soo gonna kick the guy’s ass. Anyways there are a lota things that I have learnt from my own experience and those of my friends. I don’t want her to make the same mistakes that we did so I thot I’ll just list down sum do’s and don’ts & sum solid advice for her which I hope she uses when she decides to see a guy …
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
NOSTALGIA :)
WARNING: This is gonna be a super long blog!!!
I read this sumwhere- Nostalgia is like a grammar lesson: You find the present tense and the past perfect. I think its so true.....
My MBA is almost over just one exam to go...I just wanna stop time. Its funny cos like 5 months bak I was felling the exact opposite- I cudn’t wait 4 for it 2 get over. I think the best and the most carefree time of ur life is when u r studin. The only thing u hav 2 worry abt is getting good grades. And even that seems too much then. I didn’t really think it was gonna be this hard. Its seems like all of a sudden u gotta grow up, be responsible, take up a job, invest ur money and pay taxes….
I wanna do these things but rite now I wanna be carefree and just care abt finishing my college assignments. I am seriously gonna miss college. Ok I know this is gonna be like a totally geeky thing 2 say but wat the heck I am one- There are still so many books in my library that I havn’t read man. I am not kiddin but I think I am gonna miss the library the most. It was like my cave where I found solitude. I had my little corner with books that no one read..... but me. Ok so this is by far one of the best compliments I have got, the peon in my college library once told me that no ones ever luved books in this library like u have.
I think another thing that I am gonna miss is workin on projects. I luved that feelin of getin so consumed in wat u r doin u 4 get wat time it is… callin ur group members at 4 in the night or morning whatever u wanna call it and askin them to add pictures in the presentation. Oh god that was soooooo much fun especially when we had presentations at 7 in the morning almost know one slept when we had those. We’d be on the phone the entire nite...Also the whole group studin thing was completely new to me. Imagine teachin commerce students accounts when I have been a science student all my life. And then there was this friend of mine who’d always be on the phone with his girlfriend and we’d all get mad at him….I am gonna miss the thali in my college canteen. I remember I went thru this phase where I had 2 hav one in a day at least. Then there was this guy in my canteen who thought I was sum actress (no clue why) and he'd jump to take my order – not to mention all my friends started teasin me with him. I think my favorite person in all my coll’s hav been the guys who got me tea and that has been Sada for the past two years. A sweetheart who looks very dashing in a blazer I might add (he’d wear one when the canteen had to cater weddings).
And the college fest – oh god the drama that happens during those is unbelievable man. Headin 5 events, being a part of the dance & the singing thing that we had goin was super exhausting. God but being so busy gave me an adrenaline rush which was unbelievable.
And then there are those Professors…My darling Cheema Sir, even thought he quit coll after my first year we had the best time when he was around. He bought the kinda energy that was hard to match up. This is a guy who made every student feel special by rememberin their names and just his presence made us feel like we cud do anything. Knowing all along that if we screw up its Ok cos he’s gonna make it alrite.
Professor Shannon – the youngest prof we had was a bundle of energy. I think his passion for things he cared abt was unbelievable. And his words of appreciation for all my presentations just gave me such a high. I mean his presentations wud be for like 10-15 marks but just cos he cared sooo much u felt like workin hard. And then there was Venky (he insisted we call him that) who made us work our asses off. I think I had the most fun workin of his presentations. Thanks to him I hav done enough research on international marketing that I can open a restaurant in Ghana….lol!
I have 2 mention Prof Bhasin here as well cos even thought I am not really a fan of him rite now his lecs in the 1st year were so much fun to attend and he taught us things that one learns only thru experiences in life and not in a class room.
I don’t know if I hav said it enough but I am gonna miss college and even though I don’t wanna admit it I gonna miss the people as well. And I hav to thank all those people I call friends today cos God knows I did everything I cud to make sure I didn’t make any. But they just always hung around and I never felt alone…so thank you guys:-)
I read this sumwhere- Nostalgia is like a grammar lesson: You find the present tense and the past perfect. I think its so true.....
My MBA is almost over just one exam to go...I just wanna stop time. Its funny cos like 5 months bak I was felling the exact opposite- I cudn’t wait 4 for it 2 get over. I think the best and the most carefree time of ur life is when u r studin. The only thing u hav 2 worry abt is getting good grades. And even that seems too much then. I didn’t really think it was gonna be this hard. Its seems like all of a sudden u gotta grow up, be responsible, take up a job, invest ur money and pay taxes….
I wanna do these things but rite now I wanna be carefree and just care abt finishing my college assignments. I am seriously gonna miss college. Ok I know this is gonna be like a totally geeky thing 2 say but wat the heck I am one- There are still so many books in my library that I havn’t read man. I am not kiddin but I think I am gonna miss the library the most. It was like my cave where I found solitude. I had my little corner with books that no one read..... but me. Ok so this is by far one of the best compliments I have got, the peon in my college library once told me that no ones ever luved books in this library like u have.
I think another thing that I am gonna miss is workin on projects. I luved that feelin of getin so consumed in wat u r doin u 4 get wat time it is… callin ur group members at 4 in the night or morning whatever u wanna call it and askin them to add pictures in the presentation. Oh god that was soooooo much fun especially when we had presentations at 7 in the morning almost know one slept when we had those. We’d be on the phone the entire nite...Also the whole group studin thing was completely new to me. Imagine teachin commerce students accounts when I have been a science student all my life. And then there was this friend of mine who’d always be on the phone with his girlfriend and we’d all get mad at him….I am gonna miss the thali in my college canteen. I remember I went thru this phase where I had 2 hav one in a day at least. Then there was this guy in my canteen who thought I was sum actress (no clue why) and he'd jump to take my order – not to mention all my friends started teasin me with him. I think my favorite person in all my coll’s hav been the guys who got me tea and that has been Sada for the past two years. A sweetheart who looks very dashing in a blazer I might add (he’d wear one when the canteen had to cater weddings).
And the college fest – oh god the drama that happens during those is unbelievable man. Headin 5 events, being a part of the dance & the singing thing that we had goin was super exhausting. God but being so busy gave me an adrenaline rush which was unbelievable.
And then there are those Professors…My darling Cheema Sir, even thought he quit coll after my first year we had the best time when he was around. He bought the kinda energy that was hard to match up. This is a guy who made every student feel special by rememberin their names and just his presence made us feel like we cud do anything. Knowing all along that if we screw up its Ok cos he’s gonna make it alrite.
Professor Shannon – the youngest prof we had was a bundle of energy. I think his passion for things he cared abt was unbelievable. And his words of appreciation for all my presentations just gave me such a high. I mean his presentations wud be for like 10-15 marks but just cos he cared sooo much u felt like workin hard. And then there was Venky (he insisted we call him that) who made us work our asses off. I think I had the most fun workin of his presentations. Thanks to him I hav done enough research on international marketing that I can open a restaurant in Ghana….lol!
I have 2 mention Prof Bhasin here as well cos even thought I am not really a fan of him rite now his lecs in the 1st year were so much fun to attend and he taught us things that one learns only thru experiences in life and not in a class room.
I don’t know if I hav said it enough but I am gonna miss college and even though I don’t wanna admit it I gonna miss the people as well. And I hav to thank all those people I call friends today cos God knows I did everything I cud to make sure I didn’t make any. But they just always hung around and I never felt alone…so thank you guys:-)
Friday, April 10, 2009
Kaash...
I don't know why but I am feelin this incredible pain like sum1 just aimed an arrow rite in the middle of my chest. I don't hav any reason 2 feel this way, every thing's goin fine but I don't know why sumthing just doesn't feel rite.......
My baby Kaaraj left today and I am super bummed abt it. It felt soooo good to hav a kid around. U know when u hav those really crappy days, I'd just go play with him and put him to sleep and it didn't seem bad anymore. Its almost as if he gave me a reason to cum home. I think I like kids in their baby phase better cos they can't talk so they can't tell u that ur irritating them....lol! I am gonna miss putting him to sleep, I am gonna miss hearing him say Papa when I'd ask him 2 say Mama., I am gonna miss him pullin may hair, I am gonna miss his cute lil laughter, I am gonna miss that lil cutie pie sooooo much:(
Fortunately 2 other kids arrive as replacements on Sunday...man am I glad abt havin a huge family. Sumtimes I just wanna hav a baby so bad its almost like my maternal instincts are beginning to kick in. I don't know if I'll be a good mother but I do know that its the one thing that I'd try my best to be good at.
My brother's cumin in a couple of days and I am super excited abt that. God I miss him so much(seems like this blog is all about missin ur family)..and he's gonna be here for sumtime so its gonna be like the good old days.
This blog was supposed be like a two line thingy cos I am not supposed to write a blog now (I hav my exams goin on) but I always hav so much to say....anyways I wrote it really fast so sorry for all the grammatical and spellin errors.
This ones by a band called THE CALL, they sound like Creed only they sing in hindi..
My baby Kaaraj left today and I am super bummed abt it. It felt soooo good to hav a kid around. U know when u hav those really crappy days, I'd just go play with him and put him to sleep and it didn't seem bad anymore. Its almost as if he gave me a reason to cum home. I think I like kids in their baby phase better cos they can't talk so they can't tell u that ur irritating them....lol! I am gonna miss putting him to sleep, I am gonna miss hearing him say Papa when I'd ask him 2 say Mama., I am gonna miss him pullin may hair, I am gonna miss his cute lil laughter, I am gonna miss that lil cutie pie sooooo much:(
Fortunately 2 other kids arrive as replacements on Sunday...man am I glad abt havin a huge family. Sumtimes I just wanna hav a baby so bad its almost like my maternal instincts are beginning to kick in. I don't know if I'll be a good mother but I do know that its the one thing that I'd try my best to be good at.
My brother's cumin in a couple of days and I am super excited abt that. God I miss him so much(seems like this blog is all about missin ur family)..and he's gonna be here for sumtime so its gonna be like the good old days.
This blog was supposed be like a two line thingy cos I am not supposed to write a blog now (I hav my exams goin on) but I always hav so much to say....anyways I wrote it really fast so sorry for all the grammatical and spellin errors.
This ones by a band called THE CALL, they sound like Creed only they sing in hindi..
Wo raastay
gumm na hote
hum sehra na
bhatakte
un sadiyon ke
safar mein
uss waqt jo
theher jaate
Kuch toh tum keh jaate
Kuch toh tum keh jaate
kabhi to milo ge
kabhi to kaho ge
hum jo yun na jaate
kaash theher jaate
aaj bhi
talaash hai
wo raaste
chale thay jin pe
iss tarah kabhi yun
saath saath
hamesha
iss safar mein
hum tumse keh paate
hum tumse keh paate
kabhi to milo ge
kabhi to kaho ge
hum jo yun na jaate
kaash theher jaate
kabhi to milo ge
kabhi to kaho ge
hum jo yun na jaate
kaash theher jaate
gumm na hote
hum sehra na
bhatakte
un sadiyon ke
safar mein
uss waqt jo
theher jaate
Kuch toh tum keh jaate
Kuch toh tum keh jaate
kabhi to milo ge
kabhi to kaho ge
hum jo yun na jaate
kaash theher jaate
aaj bhi
talaash hai
wo raaste
chale thay jin pe
iss tarah kabhi yun
saath saath
hamesha
iss safar mein
hum tumse keh paate
hum tumse keh paate
kabhi to milo ge
kabhi to kaho ge
hum jo yun na jaate
kaash theher jaate
kabhi to milo ge
kabhi to kaho ge
hum jo yun na jaate
kaash theher jaate
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