Thursday, June 19, 2008

The World Can't Bring Me Down

Yes its the spiritual me again. I feel like a whole new person these days (touchwood). I am off to meet my brother in a couple of days and i am super excited. All the reading that i have been doing has really done me a lot of good. This blog is for the young kids out there who feel like they aren't worthy of bein loved.
The reason why i am writing this blog is cos i was one them a couple of years back.

As we get older we realise that a lot of people are trying to put us down, make us feel like we arn't good enough. But thats how things work in this world of ours. The key is to believe in yourself no matter what any1 says. Know yourself well enough so that you know wat your weaknesses are and work on them. If you know yourself well enough you'll know wat to listen to and wat to ignore. Nobody is perfect but u are a smart peson if you constantly work to improve yourself. I remember this conversation i had with a person i was really close to where he told me that " you are too stupid to think for yourself so thats why i have to tell you wat to do". I think i'll remember it for the rest of my life. Its only now i realize that i don't need friends like these who try to put me down at every opportunity they get. It very important to surround yourself with positive people.
There was this game that everybody at my work played and i jus wanted to see wat the whole fuss was about so i tried my hand at it too. I enjoyed it a lot and one day i decided that i am goin to have the highest score in this game. So i played it day in and day out. I played it when i was at work i played it when i was at home until finally i got the highest score. This actually helped me realize that i can achieve anythin in life if i jus put my mind to it. I never really bothered to ask if sombody beat my score (i like to believe i am the undefeated champ). The point of this story is that if i can so can u. So wat if nobody believes in your dreams, so wat if nobody thinks that u have it in u. Like Will Smith said in the movie The Pursuit of Happiness - Don't let anybody tell that u can't do sumthing. Protect your dreams. People tell you that u can't do it cos the truth is they themselves can't do it. ( Sumthing like that )

People can't wait to fall in love these days. But the truth is before you luv sum1 else you have to luv yourself. Like i said nobody is perfect but work on yourself and be the person that you hav the potential to be. If you don't luv yourself then how can u expect sum1 else to? Sum1 has a big nose, sum1 has bad eyesight & sum1 has a big forehead. Accept everything about yourself and don't give a damn when sum1 points it out. Because at the end of the day there is more to each one of us than we appear and all of us are unique in sum way or the other. Trust me when i say this that if you can't be happy by yourself you'll never be happy even when u hav sum1. Be the best person u can be and live every single day like its your last.

We all have to go thru hardtimes. But thats jus god's way of helpin us grow as human beings. I can honestly say that i felt i grew more as a person in hardtimes than it good ones. These times jus test how strong your are as a person and get the best out of you. I luv this line from the movie Rocky Balboa- Its not about how hard you get hit but its about how you pick yourself up everytime you get hit really hard.
(watchin good movies and reading good books, i am soo livin the life). I think a person who doesn't learn anything from his mistakes is the biggest fool. Learn from your mistakes, move on and don't fret about it.

I wanna end this blog with this beautiful song by Christina Aguilera

Everyday is so wonderful
And suddenly, it's hard to breathe
Now and then, I get insecure
From all the pain,
I'm so ashamed

I am beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring me down
I am beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring me down, oh no
So don't you bring me down today

To all your friends you're delirious
So consumed in all your doom
Trying hard to fill the emptiness,
The pieces gone,
Left the puzzle undone,
Ain't that the way it is?

You are beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring you down, no, no
Cause you are beautiful in every single way
Yes words can't bring you down, oh, no
So don't you bring me down today

No matter what we do
(no matter what we do)
No matter what we say
(no matter what we say)
We're the song inside the tune
(yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
Full of beautiful mistakes
And everywhere we go
(and everywhere we go)
The sun will always shine
(sun will always, always shine)
But tomorrow we might awake
On the other side

'Cause we are beautiful,
No matter what they say
Yes, words won't bring us down, oh no
We are beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring us down, oh no
So don't you bring me down today

Don't you bring me down today
Don't you bring me down...
Mmm, today

1 comment:

Unknown said...

just happened to come across this bolg while i was looking for the song - Beautiful.

i agree on most part, howevere, i could not agree more where you write that the tough times are actully the best times cause they help you get yourself togather.

My experiences has taught me that if you let your learning senses take control during the tough times, the result is that you are a better person at the end of the whole thing. The tought times in real are the best times cause that when a person makes real progress!!

The so called good times, are like alcohol, makes you Feel better but are not actually that good for you!

All the best with you learning