This one's for my baby sis...

I have been planning 2 write this blog for sum time now just never got around to doin it. Any1who knows me knows how important my siblings are to me. They mean the world to me…. my brother is more like friend to me but my sis is my baby. I think I luv her like a daughter and I’ve done everything within my power to make sure she turns out into a spoilt brat…lol! I am super super protective about her and even thought I’ll try I know am not gonna always be around to shoo away the jerks. And I sooo don’t wanna admit it but sooner or later she’s gonna find sum guy worthy enough to date. If it were upto me I’d make sure she doesn’t date until she’s 30…no kidding. I think I am so protective cos I don’t want her 2 be hurt ever and if sum guy ever did (god forbid) , I think me and my brother are soo gonna kick the guy’s ass. Anyways there are a lota things that I have learnt from my own experience and those of my friends. I don’t want her to make the same mistakes that we did so I thot I’ll just list down sum do’s and don’ts & sum solid advice for her which I hope she uses when she decides to see a guy …

1. If a guy likes you he’ll give you all the attention in the world and he’ll make sure u know that he likes u, so don’t waste ur time doing the -does like me does he like me not crap.
2. If he’s nice to u only when he feels like it – then he’s a jerk. How u feel for sum1 doen’t change cos ur in a bad mood.
3. Don’t ever and I mean EVER let a guy tell u that ur not pretty enough or smart enough for him. The world is full of jerks who think that they are God’s gift 2 women and its better to stay away them.
4. Don’t ever assume that sum jerk who cheats on women will change himself for u, remember once a cheater always a cheater.
5. Just because sum1 says I Luv U doesn’t mean that they actually do. Actions speak louder than words and guys will do or say just about anything to get into a girl’s pants.
6. If he always has two three chicks hanging around as his back up then dump the jerk.
7. Don’t ever let a guy tell u that he can do better than u, remember that u r the best..
8. Don’t ever compromise ur own principles for a guy… if he likes u enough he’ll respect u if you stand up for wat u believe in.
9. If a guy ever cums even close to hittin u then just walk out on him, period!
10. A guy who cares about u will never take u away from ur friends, he’ll in fact try to be a part of the gang..
11. Any guy who expects u to sacrifice ur career for him is not worth it in the first place.
12. If u feel that u’ve lost ur self confidence since u started datin sum guy then just get out b4 its too late.
13. Like the guy for what he is not for what he does….
14. If he’s not there for u in ur lows then he’s not worth being with in ur highs
15. Remember guys can sweet talk themselves out of any situation.
16. If a guy really cares then distance will never be a problem for him…..he’d want to be ur boyfriend even if either of u moved to Timbaktu
17. Don’t be afraid to talk about the future of the relationship…..the fact that ur afraid means u kinda know its not heading that way.
18. Don’t ask him to make decisions for you, make ur own decisions cos he’ll get used to it and b4 u know it he’d be tellin u how to live ur life..
19. If he doesn’t acknowledge the relationship in front of his friends then I am not sure that he’s the guy for you.
20. Don’t do things for a guy that u’d regret later, it’s very easy to get carried away in a relationship.
21. Know ur priorities, remember family always cums first.
22. A guy who has the kiss and tell funda is a Jackass and so not worth it.
23. Any guy who puts u down in front of others is just gonna hurt u in a long run.
24. If he flirts with women in front of u like u don’t even exist then tell him to go screw himself…
25. Don’t get emotionally dependent on sum1 if there’s no future to the relationship.
26. If a guy cares about u then he’d care about small things that to u.
27. A guy who cares will always stand up for you.
28. If u constantly feel like u can do better then end the relationship b4 sum1 gets hurt.
29. Its ok to be jealous but if the guy can’t even stand the sight of u talkin 2 another guy then run for ur life…
30. Guys with a dominating streak are bound to get violent sooner or later and it’s better to stay away from them.
31. If the guy is mean to you a lot, don’t try to justify his actions in ur head with things like – he had a bad day or he’s stressed about stuff. No reason is good enough to treat u like carp.
32. If being with a guy gets the worse out of u or being with u gets the worse out of him then its not workin out…..
33. Don’t be scared to end a relationship if it’s not workin out cos ur afraid of bein alone….remember Karan & I are always there for u.
34. Remember to take ur friend's opinion abt the guy ( & mine as well ), if they don't like him then there has to be sumthing wrong. When it cums to stuff like this friends are generally rite....
    
35. Last but not the least it takes a lot more than love to make a relationship work. It takes a whole lot of maturity, understanding and adjustments so get into a relationship only if ur ready.