I Finally Have the Answer!!

Ok so I remember posing this question on my blog- Why do men continue to be in relationships with women they don’t wanna end up with?

I have asked this question to many guys and most of them gave me the crappy - "cos we are men, we are made like this" kinda answers but I finally got an honest answer today. See this guy at work has been sayin he wants to break-up with his girlfriend for weeks now and has been getting a lota flake from me for it as well. So today he gave me the answer that I have been lookin for 4ever now- He said she’s the sweetest girl he’s ever known and she has a lotta stuff in her life that is not goin her way rite now and she’s crazy about him. He cannot imagine how heart broken she will be and if she will be able to take it at all cos in his on words, "I am the perfect boyfriend"

I was kinda left speechless when he told me this, which by the way is very rare cos I always have sumthing to say. So it turns out not all men are jerks as I thot they were. Now about women not being able to deal with heartbreaks well lemme put it this way- Just cos women cry more doesn’t mean they are weak it just means we feel better after we cry when we are down, men on the other watch a football match to feel better (no clue how that helps....maybe it just gets out their aggression). A guy once told me getting those kidney stones out of my body was the hardest thing I have ever done and I thot in my head well u think soooo then imagine getting a child out of ur body!!! Bottom line- If God thinks women can take childbirth then she can handle anything, its only when u put a women to test do u realize how strong she is……

So for all those guys out there wondering if she will be able to take it, trust me she will and in most cases better than u!!!

P.S- I was sooo singing “Strength of a Women” by Shaggy when I wrote this blog:)